• Summer Camps
• Staying home
• Routine
• Home Safety
• Pool & Park Safety
• Travel Safety

One of the biggest decisions parents make regarding their children and the summer months is

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How many times have you seen a child or an adult that is so overweight?

How many times do our kids say I want to go to McDonalds, Wendy's or some other fast food restaurant?

Did you know that diagnosis of Type II Diabetes in children is at the highest mark, ever, in history?

Did you know for the first time in history, our children will not out live us and their medical bills will far exceed ours?

How ofter are our kids outside playing like we did?

The truth is our kids are inside more, they eat more and they are facing potential health problems. Many of the habits we develop, we do so in our childhood years, we need to eat more vegetable, more whole grains and most importantly, get outside, run, play, climb trees, ride their bikes and get physically active.

Do you want to know how to help them with that? Put limits on the video games and television. trade in your work shoes for sneakers and get outside with them.

On this site, we will be providing you tips and tricks to improve your children's lives, we will outline for you healthy eating and exercise routines.

Stay tuned for more!

Success Skills are not taught, however, they are used daily by the top 3% of the country. The challenge is most people do not know where to start. Individuals who become successful typically learn these success skills as adults, many times through very expensive lessons. How many times have you said, "I wish I would have known that when I was younger".

Why Do We Invest In Fastfood, But We Will No Invest in
Our Children's Development and Future Success

For more than 20 years I have worked with families just like yours and mine.  I see parents spend hundreds, if not thousands of dollars every year investing in McDonalds, Wendy's, Burger King any other fast food restaurant, but will balk at investing in their childs future, why is that?

Our children are our most precious asset, and frankly, many of us are setting them up for failure. We are not investing in their future anymore than our parents invested in ours.  Our kids are facing challenges that we never encountered and the consequences for ignoring their development can be far more devistating then it was for us.

Listed below are just a few of the steps parents should take to ensure their children receive the proper education to increase their chance for success as an adult.

• Parents you need to invest in your own success skills, and the Parents as Coaches program does just that. Develops your skills so you can help your child succeed faster than we did.
• Spend time communicating with them.
• Learn about Vision Boards (See Parents As Coaches)
• Develop Goal Setting Skills
• Make Reading a Must
• Develop communication and public speaking skills
• Make personal development part of their education
• Learn a 2nd or 3rd language

If you invested in the Parents as Coaches program as well as this membership program, you are on the right track. We will provide you with more success secrets as well as professionals that will help you break the patter that we have been in for generations.

If you have not invested fully in yours or your child's future, it is time to get off the fence. Be pro-active in your life. There is an old saying

"Chance Favors the Prepared Mind and Body"

Good Luck!!!!!

Master Gary A. Schill

Every 67 Seconds a child is bullied in our country. However, the place and the bully might supprise you. It is no longer just the big kid with low self-esteem picking on the easy target. Now, it is every person who has a keyboard, phone or talk to text. In fact Electronic or Cyber bullying

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Most marriages, relationships and work related divorces are in great cause due to lack of communication. The biggest reason why, lack of proper Listening Skills. In this lesson, we are going to teach you some great listening skills that will improve your overall communication with your family. Decrease the level of stress you feel, mainly in part because you feel like you have to keep repeating yourself.

The 5 Skills of Listening

It’s frustrating when our children don’t listen, isn’t it? When they don’t pay
attention to what you are saying at home, you wonder how much information they are missing at school.

In 20+ years of teaching Martial Arts we have developed a 5 step approach to teaching the skills of listening. You can easily teach these 5 steps to your child.

• The Listening Posture. Teach your child that when it’s time to listen, they must sit or stand up straight. Shoulders back, lift the chest a little. Chin high. This alone can double listening retention!
• Direct Eye Contact is Essential. Insist on it when you are speaking with your child. She will then be able to focus on the words being said. How many times have you spoken to your child only to see them fixated on a television program or video games. Get them to Focus their eyes on you and they will respond much better.
• Repeat the Message Back to the Speaker When Possible. For example, a child might say, “So, mom you’d like for me to clean up my room and feed the cat before I play on the computer”. This lets the speaker know your child has understood.
• Ask Questions? Coach your children to ask you respectful questions. This shows that they are paying attention and care about what the other person is saying. “Why do we have to rinse the dishes before we put them in the dishwasher, instead of, that’s stupid, that is what the dishwasher is for.
• Look for More Information. Especially with older children, train to ask themselves, “How does the speaker feel about what they are saying.” Are they angry? Bored? Interested? Concerned? Learn to react calmly, not with emotion if the other person is already angry or sad.

Parents, even young children can be taught these steps. Begin by reading them to your kids, and then practicing each skill.

When you observe your child losing focus, just the simple reminder, “Remember… listening skills!” will refocus them. And, of course, watch like a hawk for situations when your child does not listen effectively. Catch them doing it right and follow up with a huge dose of appreciation. “Honey, I am so proud of you for listening to what I was saying!”

Adult Listening Skills

As a man I can tell you that many times I am single minded, especially when I am watching sports or some history or car show. Much of that has to do with my work environment. I am spinning plates all day and when I get home, I just want to give my mind a rest. With all that being said, it would be a good idea that if you need to speak with your spouse. Find a time when you can turn the television off, get face to face with preferably no distraction. (I have 5 kids, I understand) This will improve how the two of you hear each other and hopefully will reduce the frustration either party feeling as though the other is not listening or dismissing their feelings.

In future lessons, we will give you some tips and tricks for improving communication skills in all areas of your life.

Summer is approaching fast and there are many things to think about. In this lesson, we will be discussing the following topics

• Summer Camps
• Staying home
• Routine
• Home Safety
• Pool & Park Safety
• Travel Safety

One of the biggest decisions parents make regarding their children and the summer months is what camp

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